Sunday, August 30, 2009

Change: the only constant

Every other person comes about an age when they find that life is full of right & left turns. You already know that it dosn't have a hair-pin curve! There have been a lot of people who bring you to that point of realization. You reach an age when you realize that you've grown up! You are no kid any longer! I've met a ot of people who helped me reach there. This blog would be entirely dedicated to those who changed the way i look @ life, positevely. I spare the rest a mention...just becoz they dont deserve one.
Now, who can forget the parents!! My dad is THE best!! & i am totally incapable of proving it 2 any1 right now. I will always respect him for the kind of man he was, & will love him for being the bestest dad! Let me take this oppertunity to stress that he's best i've met till date! Same goes for my mom. Now this i can back with proof. Which other mom pokes her nose into all your affairs, yet thinks like an 18 yr old at times & a 20 yr old the rest of the times?! Which other mom trusts you to an extend that she finds it amusing that you are capable of flirting?! If u find a mom like mine...trust me...u R lucky!!
I've also got couple of xtremely good friends!! My friends list has always been male-dominated!! My 1st mention goes to the guy who made me look at a whole new side of life. He taught me that it's ok to say sorry & it dosnt hurt to admit your mistakes. From him I learnt that you probably wont get everything you wanted. But if u looked closely enough, what you have, would actually be what you always wanted! I could never thank destiny more for letting us meet!
Speaking about destiny letting people meet & moving on, here come the next set of people. There is this guy, a senior from school, who is right now doing his MBA(something he always wanted 2 do!) who broght me to a place on earth where I would have the best days of my life(after my childhood), called UniY. Now his guy also taught me that its possible to like & trust some1 inspite of the fact that they dont trust you like you do.He also changed my like by causing me to meet 2 of the awesomest men i've come across.
These 2 have been the best of friends ive come across. They taught me that only the best maintain the capabilities of being the worst. We loved our company. Yet it didnt stand the test of time, bcoz of factors which as mentioned earlier deserve no mention. They taught me that all promises cant be kept, mainly bcoz they all cant be remembered. They also taught me that as times moves on, so do people. Yet, there is a part of you somewhere beneath that wants everything to come back & take that hairpin curve.
Then there are these people. No matter how long you have been apart, you can still catch up from where you left.This category is a ladies only category!! There this female who showed me that no matter how long you stay apart....some relatonships never change!! Ours is a long 15 yrs long friendship still going strong(touch wood!!). Then there is this other female who taught me that it dosnt matter if u dont share joys. What matters is whether you r there when the other is in disstress! My gossip partner, my stress buster & lovely chum, i love calling 'Rocket'!!& then there is this guy who i jokingly call a 'Liar' just bcoz he is a Lawyer in the making(the kind am sure, will reach places no matter how long he takes!). This guy taught me to act so that u dont regret losing people who really mattered to you, just bcoz your ego didn't let you to talk it out. Though this particular guy in question hates me for reasons unknown to me.....he does deserve a mention here!! Mr. Lawyer..if you are reading this...it mattered a hell lot that we met! There is yet another female who the 'liar'(the name is in good spirits & get this straight... he has never lied to me!) hates just the way he hates me. But this girl..she's a darling!! I sometimes wonder, if I had a sis, she would be like her. We call ourselves 'Matter' & 'Anti-matter'!! Knowing her assures me that am not the only weird female around. Thank u Anti-matter!!
Sure these are not the only one who matter. But sure are the reals ones worth a mention. Life would have been a lot different but for them. & that too in a not so good way. All i ask is...for them to stay! They change or not...i dont give a damn. But it sure matters if they stay.